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Imposers And Imposees

“Never tell people how to do things. Tell them what to do and they will surprise you with their ingenuity.” – George S. Patton

Isn’t it amazing at how people and groups, especially those in positions of authority, are always exhorting others to perform work exactly the way that they want the work to be done? Instead of carefully clarifying “what” needs to be done, which is much more difficult and requires leadership over management, the “imposers” obsess over every little detail of the “how” – which is management over leadership. Leaders focus on the “what”, but managers obsess over the “how”. What’s really mind-boggling, is that if you ask an imposer for helpful examples of excellence that they’ve personally created before they were promoted from an imposee to an imposer, you get some kind of evasive smokescreen answer, or some combo of body and facial movement that conveys this message:  “it’s taboo for you to ask that question”. When that happens, credibility and professional respect, extremely tough to earn but easily lost, go right down the crapper. Is asking for leadership-by-example a disrespectful thing to do? In dysfunctional orgs where there are few, if any leadership-by-examples of excellence, asking probing questions is considered an act of subordination that is not easily forgiven or forgotten.

Under the veil of “industry best practices”, and the unspoken but clearly understood directive that imposees are required to learn the details of the “how” fully and instantaneously on their own time, the pounding into submission by imposers continues. The pounding only stops when enough camouflage has been generated by the imposee(s) to anesthesize the imposers into thinking that they’ve prevailed. It’s only a temporary high. Sooner or later, everyone finds out, sometimes spectacularly, that the neglected “what” is FUBAR. In dysfunctional organizations that behave in accordance with these “industry worst practices”, it’s no wonder that the majority of employees become cynical, apathetic, disengaged, and disgruntled camouflage creators.

“You do not lead by hitting people over the head – that’s assault, not leadership” – Dwight D. Eisenhower

So, am I a “do as I say not as I do” imposer and hippocrate? Well, I try not to be one, but I might be failing miserably at it. Judge for yourself by reading one or more of the rants on this blog. Do I overdo it sometimes or, uhhh, always? Decide for yourself.

Imposer Imposee

  1. Ray's avatar
    Ray
    May 27, 2009 at 12:42 am

    The worst type of Imposer(s) are the hypocrites. They impose rules that they don’t follow themselves. The Configuration Management organization that forces others down a standards path but doesn’t follow the it themselves. Reason because they know better. Another example is management at a company imposing an expense reporting system on others that had major bugs in it. They seemed to ignore the problems until they were forced to use it themselves. For a long time their secretaries were entering their expenses. Finally corporate said the the managers had to enter their own expenses. It was at that point that the system got changed.

  2. Paul's avatar
    Paul
    May 19, 2021 at 12:06 am

    when the imposer is sus

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